Lessons of Life
The Pretty Lady: Once upon a time a big monk
and a little monk were traveling together. They came to the
bank of a river and found the bridge was damaged. They had
to wade across the river. There was a pretty lady who was
stuck at the damaged bridge and couldn't cross the
river. The big monk offered to carry her across the river on
his back. The lady accepted. The little monk was shocked by
the move of the big monk. 'How can big brother carry a
lady when we are supposed to avoid all intimacy with
females?' thought the little monk. But he kept quiet.
The big monk carried the lady across the river and the small
monk followed unhappily. When they crossed the river, the
big monk let the lady down and they parted ways with her.
All along the way for several miles, the little monk was
very unhappy with the act of the big monk. He was making up
all kinds of acussations about big monk in his head. This
got him madder and madder. But he still kept quiet. And the
big monk had no inclination to explain his situation.
Finally, at a rest point many hours later, the little monk
could not stand it any further, he burst out angrily at the
big monk. 'How can you claim yourself a devout monk,
when you seize the first opportunity to touch a female,
especially when she is very pretty? All your teachings to me
make you a big hypocrite The big monk looked surprised and
said, 'I had put down the pretty lady at the river bank
many hours ago, how come you are still carrying her
along?' [This very old Chinese Zen story reflects the
thinking of many people today. We encounter many unpleasant
things in our life, they irritate us and they make us angry.
Sometimes, they cause us a lot of hurt, sometimes they cause
us to be bitter or jealous .. But like the little monk, we
are not willing to let them go away.We keep on carrying the
baggage of the 'pretty lady' with us. We let them
keep on coming back to hurt us, make us angry, make us
bitter and cause us a lot of agony.Why? Simply because we
are not willing to put down or let go of the baggage of the
'pretty lady'. We should let go of the pretty lady
immediately after crossing the river, that is after the
unpleasant event is over.This will immediately remove all
our agonies.There is no need to be further h urt by the
unpleasant event after it is over.] Science is organized
knowledge. Wisdom is organized life.
Saturday, January 10, 2009
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